The Blog Erotic: Sex and Relationships

Sex:  Joyous, meaningful, confusing, enlightening!  Sex can be so many things, it is endlessly fascinating.  The Blog Erotic is written by psychologist and sex therapist Dr. Stephanie Buehler to educate and entertain readers.  You will find posts about sex and...

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Sex Therapy for the “Old Old”

Would it surprise you if I told you that I treated couples as old as 95? I have! Lately, in fact, I've seen several couples in their mid-70's to late 80s wondering what they are supposed to do about sex. I'm old, too--but at 62, I'm considered "young old." (Just for...

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Radio Interview with Dr. Kim Sage

It's ironic that I do more media interviews that go national than here in OC, so I am always thrilled to bits when I get a chance to talk about sex therapy to locals. Psychologist Dr. Kim Sage offers a weekly Sunday morning broadcast on various mental health and...

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Couples Who Lose Sex Drive: What’s Wrong?

Recently I was quoted in Ian Kerner’s article for CNN about low sex drive, which is the most common complaint In the sex therapist’s practice.  Low sex drive is a big problem, because when the spark goes out for one or both partners, it can signal the end of a...

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Sex Therapy for Painful Sex

Are you one of the millions of women who can’t have sex because it hurts?  Painful sex can be one of the most frustrating and mysterious conditions a woman can face.  When sex hurts, you may have a condition called vaginismus.  Vaginismus is diagnosed when your pelvic...

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5 Surprising Reasons to Learn Sex Therapy

Did you know that with few people practicing sex therapy, thousands of people with sexual problems go without the help they need? Sex therapists help men, women, and couples find optimal sexual health and satisfaction. If you become a sex therapist, you will work with...

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Making 2018 New Year’s Resolutions for a Loving Relationship

New Year’s resolutions for your relationship shouldn’t come from a sex and love expert—they should come from you and your partner. But, some couples do not know how to create resolutions that will really help them be more loving. Here are some ideas to help you write your own relationship resolutions.

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Cheating While Pregnant: Yes, It Really Happens

Maybe you've seen this magazine cover blasting the words "Pregnant & Cheated On!" over Kylie Jenner. What?!  How could any man cheat on his partner when she's carrying his child?  Does this ever really happen? Yes, unfortunately, affairs do happen during...

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Sex and Infertility: Low Desire in Women

Infertility and its treatment may create low sexual desire in women.  This can mean that a couple may attempt intercourse less often, making it even order to conceive.  In fact, research shows that fertility is higher in couples that engage in frequent intercourse. ...

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The Sexual Health of Carlos Danger

Anthony Weiner, aka Carlos Danger, was sentenced to prison for texting with a 15 year old minor girl. Just Weiner's code name reveals how out of touch he was with reality. The man lost his grip--and everything and everyone he valued, too, all for some moments of...

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