Years ago, I lived with a man who would not sleep in the same bed as me. He was a wonderful person who was fun, smart, artistic, handsome, and caring — but he wasn’t intimate. In fact, he had a substantial porn addiction that I confronted him about early on in our relationship. That addiction eventually proved bigger than my love for him — or his for me. For too long, evenings involved me going to bed by myself and him staying up late only to fall asleep on the couch. At the time, it was the elephant in the room in our otherwise pleasant relationship. But it took me years to understand how his behavior had very little to do with me… Click Here to Read More