Adapt to Shifts It’s in our DNA. That’s what Jack Kornfield said in one of his guided meditations as a response to COVID. I had to think about that one to understand it. I think he meant, our adaptability to all kinds of conditions is in our human DNA. Humans...
Softie and stoic. Psychologist and attorney. 5’4″ and 6’5″. Couch potato and gym rat. “The sky is falling!” and “Don’t waste my time!” Can we just get along? It’s no surprise that my husband and I, like many...
Would it surprise you if I told you that I treated couples as old as 95? I have! Lately, in fact, I’ve seen several couples in their mid-70’s to late 80s wondering what they are supposed to do about sex. I’m old, too–but at 62, I’m...
It’s ironic that I do more media interviews that go national than here in OC, so I am always thrilled to bits when I get a chance to talk about sex therapy to locals. Psychologist Dr. Kim Sage offers a weekly Sunday morning broadcast on various mental health and...
Years ago, I lived with a man who would not sleep in the same bed as me. He was a wonderful person who was fun, smart, artistic, handsome, and caring — but he wasn’t intimate. In fact, he had a substantial porn addiction that I confronted him about early on in our...
