Kink and Alternative Lifestyles

Are You Into Kink or an Alternative Lifestyle?

Do you need to talk about something besides sex, but don’t want to be judged for the way you express your sexuality?  Or do you and your partner need to talk about an aspect of your sexual behavior?  Maybe you have a sexual behavior you no longer want to engage in, but you’re having a hard time figuring out how to be a little more conventional?

I work with people who have all kinds of concerns, including:

  • Cross-dressing
  • Fetish behavior (AB/DP, latex, furries…)
  • BDSM relationships
  • Polyamorous lifestyle
  • Swinging lifestyle
  • Unusual attractions
  • Whatever!

At The Buehler Institute, I accept you where you are and will help you decide where you want to be. Whether you need self acceptance or want to make a change, I can assist you.  I can also help you explain your behavior to your partner, and help you and your partner negotiate a satisfying sex life.

If you don’t want to talk about it on the phone, you don’t have to. You can tell me you’re uncomfortable or want to explain in person, and then schedule an intake. If it’s something I’m not expert in, I’ll know quickly, and get you where you need to be. I think everyone deserves to be understood.


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